quarrel~~

Saturday, August 21, 2004


Argh.. mum n dad are having those cold war. That's real real bad. I'm trying my best to be the middleman, and to tell them to just listen to me. I tried to tell them how one and another felt without causing an argument. It's real tough. I am trying to make them see one another's pt of view. Argh.. Guess i know where i got my stubborness character from. Argh.

Their arguments:
Dad's pt of view:Mum kept taking his savings and mum even asked dad to take out e money my grandma set aside to lend my dad. Dad felt guilty bout having to use part of the money yrs ago. Then he started to question bout how all his savings were gone thanks to mum's money management. Mum gave us the impression that she always spend dad's money on herself. (Going for holidays many many times)

Mum's pt of view:Mum wanted to take dad money to pay for my school tution fees, and she wanted to take out e remaining money dad had to put into their joint account. Dad refused to and mum is mad. Mum told dad to send grandma to STAY in the old folk's home because there's trained people there to look after her. And when grandma stays here, dad always rushes home to cook and look after her. That affects dad's concentration in driving taxi. Mum don't want dad to over-exert himself too, as dad once has a brain surgery when he collapsed at home.

Argh.. i'm more on dad's side. Mum usually don't give explaination on her actions as she think that me, her daughter, don't have e right to interfere in e way she manage the money. When she cant explain anything, she'll just get angry, and war would officially be declared after that. That's so bad. Mum sleep in bro's room since yesterday as bro just went for his BMT. argh. Wonder how long that gonna last. Pray hard that divorce won't come into the picture.

8/21/2004 09:20:00 PM|