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Tuesday, January 27, 2004


"If u suddenly got those special feelings for your good friend -of an opposite sex-, would u tell your good friend (the same one) about that?" This is one question that bothers me for weeks now. I've asked a few people for opinion. I asked one friend, who knew that guy, for opinion. He told me to go for it. I kept coming up with reasons to "run away" instead. The reasons are "he don't seem ready for any relationship, he don't seem to be the one that wants a gf, guess it's the same for him between gf n friends N most importantly, i don't want to lose a friend. Sigh~...

I asked my colleague for opinions. I asked 3 of them, 2 gers n a guy. The 2 girls adviced me to "go for it". They also asked reasons y i think i like that good friend of mine. My reason being, "i think i care alot for what that person said. I might have like him unknowingly." That is one thing i'm confused about.. whether i like or not. That's any reason y i don't dare to "take action". One lady,Malini even told me to take e chance on e coming valentine's day to take write a valentine card to him. haha. I asked the guy a different question. I asked him "would u be scared off by your gd friend if your good friend told u she likes u? If u reject her, would u still be as close as before?"He told me he'll reject in a nice way - saying he need to put priority in his work- N still stay as close as before. Would that be the case if that happened to him?

So.. in conclusion, i still don't know whether i like him or not.. N whether i should try to take our friendship a step higher. By the way, i did tell a guy i like him before. That was way back during my secondary school days when i was preparing for my O lvl. I used sms to ask about his opinion, n my intention actually was to say the sender is NOT me when he reject, but he did not reply in sms. He called me.Argh~.. Meaning, i have to say "voice-to-voice that it's me n i want to know his answer. Argh`.. In title, me n that guy were in relationship, but in actual fact, we still go out together like friends, so, we might as well stayed as friends. We then break-off n then he got a gf not.hehe~. End of story. Moral of story, "i DID confess to guy b4" but i feel too old to do that again. Sigh~. N this time, it's friend i knew for years. I don't want to risk losing a friend.

Lastly, this is a post to get people to give me some suggestions or comments. Those that step foot on this page, u MUST tell me your opinions~!! hehe. Wish i got some useful advice here as that's e purpose of posting this post.

1/27/2004 06:45:00 PM|