wrong one~~

Monday, November 15, 2004


We are all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you've been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there's no right person, just different flavors of wrong.

Why is this? Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into yout wrongness. It isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons - your unsolvable problems - the ones that make you who you truly are - that you're ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then do you finally know what you r looking for.

You are looking for the wrong person. But not just any wrong person: the "right" wrong person - someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, "This is the problem i want to have."

I will find that special person who is wrong for me in just the right way.

The above are adapted from a novel i am reading now. That novel is my bday gift, and it's by Danielle Steel as usual, and title is Second Chance. I found that it's kinda true. In fact, every problems anyone have have something to do with perspective. If u view your life positively, you'll view all your so-call sufferings and happiness in a good way.

Eh.. instead of viewing it as Life is short, so treasure it, we can also view it as Life is long,so be patient bout the upcoming surprise of life. Eh.. so i guess instead of complaining to myself bout me not having found e special someone, i should be patient enough to wait for me "right" wrong one to appear~!

Anyway, exam for me can be regarded as over, and i'm so call enjoying that. Hehe. I am trying out ways to edit the pictures for my new layout right now. Argh. Been working on it for the whole day.. but i still cant get the effect i want. Anyway, next layout gonna features my hongkong pictures.Tata.

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