Third Party

Saturday, March 01, 2008


What is the reason y people get another ger/guy when they are in a relationship? Who's fault is it?

Xia starts to wonder.. Seeing more and more stories on breakup cos of another guy/ger tt exists in the relationship. But who's fault is it? Is it really the fault of the party who commits this? Or is it the faithful bf/gf fault?

Xia suffer from this thingy too. When my ex left me for another ger. His ex once did that to him too, so i never expect him to do that to me. He kept telling me we already had problem. Then, he said too.. that he understand his ex's stand den.. i forgot the exact thing but it's something like the feeling that led u to it.

People choose another guy/ger because of the feeling that guide them. Staying in a relationship maybe too rough for them. Sensing more sadness than happiness.. feeling more neglect than care.. Slowly and slowly, when another person came in and make u happy.. that is when u slowly start to sin.. So who's fault is that? E current bf/gf's fault? Can u blame it on the other person? But of cos.. if the bf/gf is super good to u.. and u found another guy/ger, that's e fault of the person.

Thinking on both sides.. maybe no one is at the wrong. Feelings.. it's hard to predict.. Is there such thing as FOREVER? i once tot it exists.. but maybe not. Maybe unless both parties felt the same way about one another, and they both stays loving and caring.

That is why, i finally understand y olive once said that she told xian if he finds a better one, he can just tell her. She's willing to let go. Anyway, what's the point of holding on to someone caused u're used to him but u noe e other guy will be e correct one? I adopted her attitude... but i noe unlike her, my relationship will nv be as strong as her.. Maybe it's just me..

If both give in e same amt of effort, the relationship may be a ever lasting one.