Saturday, March 01, 2008
What is the reason y people get another ger/guy when they are in a relationship? Who's fault is it? Xia starts to wonder.. Seeing more and more stories on breakup cos of another guy/ger tt exists in the relationship. But who's fault is it? Is it really the fault of the party who commits this? Or is it the faithful bf/gf fault? Xia suffer from this thingy too. When my ex left me for another ger. His ex once did that to him too, so i never expect him to do that to me. He kept telling me we already had problem. Then, he said too.. that he understand his ex's stand den.. i forgot the exact thing but it's something like the feeling that led u to it. People choose another guy/ger because of the feeling that guide them. Staying in a relationship maybe too rough for them. Sensing more sadness than happiness.. feeling more neglect than care.. Slowly and slowly, when another person came in and make u happy.. that is when u slowly start to sin.. So who's fault is that? E current bf/gf's fault? Can u blame it on the other person? But of cos.. if the bf/gf is super good to u.. and u found another guy/ger, that's e fault of the person. Thinking on both sides.. maybe no one is at the wrong. Feelings.. it's hard to predict.. Is there such thing as FOREVER? i once tot it exists.. but maybe not. Maybe unless both parties felt the same way about one another, and they both stays loving and caring. That is why, i finally understand y olive once said that she told xian if he finds a better one, he can just tell her. She's willing to let go. Anyway, what's the point of holding on to someone caused u're used to him but u noe e other guy will be e correct one? I adopted her attitude... but i noe unlike her, my relationship will nv be as strong as her.. Maybe it's just me.. If both give in e same amt of effort, the relationship may be a ever lasting one. |
1. To find a husband for Laffy 2. 3. To reach 58kg 4. To go holiday this year with darling 5. Wanna learn the piano, or organ at least? 6. To serve in church Benedict~~ Charlene~~ Charmain~~ Charis~~ Christine~~ Dew~~ Eileen~~ Fang Hui~~ Grace~~ Huiling~~ Jiahui~~ Jieshi~~ Jilline~~ Jun~~ Kaijing~~ Kaixin~~ Lim Yixin~~ Olive~~ Piao^yun~~ Ruiqi~~ Shirley~~ siewkim~~ Sihui~~ Sumin~~ Tingting~~ xiuling~~ yan~~ yiwei~~ life's not great xia needs no one~! back to reality Mood of CNY isn't e same anymore Career Fair hurt... photos~! learn to control friend became foe hanging on~ |